The prostate is a male reproductive gland that helps make some of the fluid in semen. About the size and shape of a walnut, it surrounds the urethra, the tube through which the urine leaves the body. It’s located in front of the rectum, between the bladder and the penis. When your prostate gland is stimulated or massaged, it’s possible to have a type of orgasm called a prostate orgasm.
Prostate massage to the point of orgasm is also sometimes considered an alternative treatment for prostatitis, a condition that means the prostate is inflamed. Draining fluid from your prostate ducts can help ease pressure.
Some research has looked at the effectiveness of an at-home device for prostate massage, particularly in the case of benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH). BPH is a type of prostate inflammation that can happen as men age. It can cause pain or trouble peeing.
Prostate massage can also be a sexual activity. Inserting a finger, penis, or device into the anus and stimulating the prostate from there can lead to orgasm for some people. You can also stimulate the gland from the outside by massaging the prostate through the perineum, the area between the anus and the scrotum. Orgasm achieved solely through perineum massage is sometimes known as perineum orgasm.
Your prostate is packed with nerve endings. You may find that it feels good to massage even if you don’t have an orgasm.
Other Names for Prostate Orgasm
The prostate is sometimes called the male G-spot, or p-spot. It’s a reference to the area inside a vagina, called the G-spot, that can lead to orgasm.
Some people use the phrase “prostate milking” instead of prostate massage. “Prostate massage,” “prostate orgasm,” and “prostate milking” are often used interchangeably. But “prostate milking” may describe only orgasms from internal, rather than perineal, massage.
What’s the Difference Between Prostate and Penile Orgasm?
There are several ways these orgasms differ for most people.
Prostate orgasm vs. penile orgasm
| Prostate Orgasm | Penile Orgasm |
|---|---|
| Sensations are radiating and wavelike, spreading throughout the pelvic area. | Sensations are sharp and concentrated in the penis. |
| The intensity has a slower buildup, and it’s often experienced as a whole-body climax. | The intensity is experienced as quick, explosive, and physical. |
| It lasts 30-60 seconds or more. | It lasts about 5-15 seconds. |
| The recovery period may be shorter or sometimes absent, allowing for multiple consecutive orgasms. | You may need a longer recovery time before another erection or orgasm is possible. |
Penile orgasms are the most common male orgasms. These differences may vary from person to person.
How to Explore Prostate Orgasm
You may explore this by yourself or with a partner.
If you’re trying it for the first time, you may want to begin with stimulation of the perineum. As you move backward toward the anus, you will know you’ve hit the right spot when the area under your skin feels softer, and you feel an increase in sensation. You may also feel like you need to pee at the same time.
If you want to try internal stimulation, start by inserting a well-lubricated finger (your own or a partner’s) into your rectum. Be gentle. The prostate will feel fleshier and softer than the surrounding area.
You can also use sex toys such as vibrators and plugs to achieve prostate orgasm. They may be used either internally or externally.
Safety Advice and Special Considerations
Prostate orgasm is generally safe to try as long as you avoid scratching or irritating the tissue. To help make the experience safer:
- Trim your nails.
- Be gentle, go slow, and start small.
- Use a strong lubricant.
You can use a water-based or silicone lubricant. Some prefer silicone for anal play because it tends to last longer and offers more lubrication. However, if using silicone toys, be sure to use a water-based lube.
The prostate is close to the rectum, but you shouldn’t worry about poop as long as you’ve had a bowel movement within the past day or so. However, if you’re unsure or feel like you still need to use the bathroom, you can check beforehand. If an inserted device or finger emerges clean, you should be fine. If not, perhaps leave prostate massage for another day.
Takeaways
Prostate massage is a type of orgasm that may happen when your prostate is massaged or stimulated. You can explore it by yourself or with a partner. It can be done for sexual pleasure or as a treatment for prostatitis, a condition when your prostate is inflamed.
Prostate Orgasm FAQs
How often should I massage my prostate?
There's no official recommendation or rule, but massaging your prostate too much can lead to pain and medical issues.
Why does pressing my prostate feel good?
That's because the prostate is packed with nerve endings, making it a primary erogenous zone.
Is ejaculating once a day good for your prostate?
Yes. Research shows men who ejaculate 21 or more times a month have a significantly lower risk of developing prostate cancer than those who ejaculate just four to seven times a month.
