You’re suddenly not remembering things like you used to, and you need to see a doctor. I’m Kristen Davis, and I’ve been a caregiver and advocate for my mom for over a decade as she deals with memory loss from Alzheimer’s disease. This guide can help you prepare for your doctor’s visit.
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0:32Sudden memory loss can be worrisome. Take a deep breath, find a trusted support person who can go with you to your doctor’s visit, and learn more about what’s happening and what to do next.
“It’s easy early on to blow off forgetfulness… but even a little observation can signal something more significant.”
If you’re feeling anxious about your memory loss, you can focus some of that energy on tasks that get you ready for your appointment.
You want answers, and so does your doctor. Here are questions to ask and answer that can get you both closer to that goal.
Save & Share the questions for your appointment.“I do believe that where there's a will, there's a way when it comes to getting excellent care. Sometimes it's just a matter of finding the right fit.”
Doctors may be experts, but your voice is a vital part of the conversation. You have a right to be heard.
Here are some situations where you might need to advocate for yourself, along with what you can say.
Once you have more information from your doctor, it’s time to process it and carry out next steps.
Schedule follow-ups. If it’s with the same doctor, you should be able to do it before you leave the office. Specialists may have long wait times, so don’t put off calling other offices for appointments.
Consider a second opinion. If you’re feeling at all unsettled or left with more questions, consult another doctor.
Build support. My mom has a close friend who’s been part of our life since I was a kid, and this friend calls and talks to my mom daily. It really helps us both keep track of how she’s doing over time, and it also lifts her spirits and keeps her busy.
Kristen Davis is a devoted caretaker and advocate for her mother, who has lived with Alzheimer's for more than 10 years. A professional in accessibility tools for children, Kristen applies her expertise to her mother’s care by implementing practical strategies to help slow the progression of her disease.
