The stage of cancer refers to how far it's spread, but you'll also want to ask about your grade (or Gleason score). The higher the number, the more likely your cancer cells are to grow and spread quickly. Both your stage and grade matter when it comes to your outlook and treatment options.

Everyone with metastatic prostate cancer should be offered germline testing. These are tests that look for inherited cancer-causing genes. Your results not only impact your treatment options, but they can tell you if your family members should be screened for genetic mutations that raise their risk of cancer.

Private insurers and public programs like Medicaid and Medicare should help cover the costs of prostate cancer treatment. But if you need help paying for care, ask to talk to a social worker who can help you find financial resources. You'll also find free support through the ZERO360 program by Zero Prostate Cancer.

You'll need the support of your loved ones. Ask your doctor, social worker, or a nurse educator for tips on how to get the conversation started if you have trouble opening up or you're not sure what to say.

Men at every stage of prostate cancer want to know the answer to this question. And while your doctor can't predict the future, they can give you a general timeline for what you might expect given your stage and grade of cancer.

Black men, like me, are the most likely group to get diagnosed with prostate cancer and to die from it. This is a big reason why I feel so strongly about my role as an advocate and mentor for other people with prostate cancer.

Do you want an aggressive option that'll give you the best chance at controlling your disease? Or do you care more about living as long as possible but with fewer side effects from treatment?

They'll want to know about your diet and exercise habits, along with how much alcohol you drink or if you're a smoker. They're not there to judge you, so be honest about anything that might affect your treatment or overall health.

Symptoms of depression and anxiety are common among people with advanced prostate cancer, especially once you start hormone treatment. But your doctor will only know to refer you to a psychiatrist or other mental health professional if you tell them you're having trouble.

Your doctor can help you stay on top of your other medical issues and address any treatment changes you might need later on.